The members page is where conversations begin. Type a message in the chat box above, watch replies arrive in real time, and see who else is online in the list beside it. There are no long forms and no waiting around, just people talking.
Whether you want a relaxed hello, a friendly debate or someone to talk to after a long day, this is a good place to start. Many members simply drop in for a few minutes between other things, and that is perfectly fine.
Everything you need to meet someone new sits within reach of the chat box.
Chat in real time
Send a message and it appears in the room straight away, so the conversation keeps its pace.
React to messages
Tap Like, Love or Sad under any message to answer without typing a word.
Share more than text
Add an emoji or a picture to make your message feel more personal.
Find a member
Use the search box beside the chat to look for someone by name.
How to start a conversation that goes somewhere
Open with something specific. A question about music, travel or food earns more replies than a single "hi".
Share a little about yourself, such as your age, city or a hobby, so people have something to answer.
Read the room. Join the topic that is already running before you change it.
Be patient. Some members reply within seconds, others check in later.
Make the most of the member list
The list on the right of the chat shows who is online at this moment. Each name is a real person who can answer you, so take a look before you write your first message. If someone has already joined the conversation you are following, a quick reply that mentions what they said is a friendly way to begin.
Not sure what to say? Ask how their day is going, what they are listening to, or where they would travel next. Light, open questions keep the mood easy and give the other person room to answer in their own words.
Keep it friendly and safe
Real Online Chat is for adults only. Treat every member with respect, and keep personal details such as your phone number, home address or bank information to yourself. If someone makes you uncomfortable, stop replying and leave the conversation.
Quick answers
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Who can use this chat?
Adults only. Everyone is expected to keep the conversation respectful.
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Do I need to write long messages?
No. Short messages, emoji and reaction buttons all work well here.
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Why does the member list change?
It shows who is online at that moment, so it grows and shrinks through the day.
Your next conversation is one message away
Scroll back up, type a greeting and see who answers.