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Say hello to members who are online right now

The members page is where conversations begin. Type a message in the chat box above, watch replies arrive in real time, and see who else is online in the list beside it. There are no long forms and no waiting around, just people talking.

Whether you want a relaxed hello, a friendly debate or someone to talk to after a long day, this is a good place to start. Many members simply drop in for a few minutes between other things, and that is perfectly fine.

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Illustration of the Real Online Chat window with message bubbles, reaction buttons and a list of online members

What you can do on this page

Everything you need to meet someone new sits within reach of the chat box.

Chat in real time

Send a message and it appears in the room straight away, so the conversation keeps its pace.

React to messages

Tap Like, Love or Sad under any message to answer without typing a word.

Share more than text

Add an emoji or a picture to make your message feel more personal.

Find a member

Use the search box beside the chat to look for someone by name.

Illustration of members connected around a heart, with a search bar showing people who are online

How to start a conversation that goes somewhere

  • Open with something specific. A question about music, travel or food earns more replies than a single "hi".
  • Share a little about yourself, such as your age, city or a hobby, so people have something to answer.
  • Read the room. Join the topic that is already running before you change it.
  • Be patient. Some members reply within seconds, others check in later.

Make the most of the member list

The list on the right of the chat shows who is online at this moment. Each name is a real person who can answer you, so take a look before you write your first message. If someone has already joined the conversation you are following, a quick reply that mentions what they said is a friendly way to begin.

Not sure what to say? Ask how their day is going, what they are listening to, or where they would travel next. Light, open questions keep the mood easy and give the other person room to answer in their own words.

Keep it friendly and safe

Real Online Chat is for adults only. Treat every member with respect, and keep personal details such as your phone number, home address or bank information to yourself. If someone makes you uncomfortable, stop replying and leave the conversation.

Quick answers

Who can use this chat?

Adults only. Everyone is expected to keep the conversation respectful.

Do I need to write long messages?

No. Short messages, emoji and reaction buttons all work well here.

Why does the member list change?

It shows who is online at that moment, so it grows and shrinks through the day.

Your next conversation is one message away

Scroll back up, type a greeting and see who answers.

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